Then I leave you more than 50 Phrases of Anthony de Mello , Priest Jesuit, psychotherapist and author of works as Wake up!, The song of the bird or The spring.
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1-You see people and things not as they are, but as you are.
2-Wisdom tends to grow in proportion to the awareness of one's own ignorance.
3-Happiness can not depend on events. It is your reaction to events that makes you suffer.
4-To live freely, owning oneself, is not to be carried away by person or situation.
5-The great tragedy of life is not how much we suffer, but how much we lose. Humans are born sleeping, living asleep and dying sleeping.
6-People who want a cure, as long as it is painless, are like those who are in favor of progress, as long as it is without change.
7-Perfect love is molded out of fear. Where there is love, there are no demands, no expectations, no dependence. I do not demand that you make me happy; My unhappiness does not reside in you. If you would leave me, I would not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company enormously, but I do not cling to it.
8-When you see that you are not as wise today as you thought yesterday, you are wiser today.
9-He who wants to be constant in happiness must change frequently.
10-Enlightenment is: absolute cooperation with the inevitable.
11-Thought is a screen, not a mirror: that's why you live in an envelope of thought, apart from reality.
12-These things will destroy the human race: politics without principles, progress without compassion, wealth without work, learning without silence, religion without recklessness and worship without conscience.
13-I am not afraid of losing you, because you are not an object of my property or someone else. I love you as you are; Without attachment, without fear, without conditions, without selfishness, without trying to absorb you. I love you freely because I love your free, like mine.
14-There is only one cause of unhappiness: the false beliefs that you have in your head, beliefs so widespread that you can not question.
15-Do not ask the world to change, change yourself first.
16-If you find me charming, it means that right now you are in a good mood, nothing more.
17-If what you said was true, where was the need to shout?
18-You have to understand that the shortest distance between truth and a human being is a story.
19-People mistakenly assume that their thinking is done by their head; In fact it is done by his heart, which dictates the conclusion first, then the head provides the reasoning that will defend it.
20-When you are guilty, you do not hate your sins, but yourself.
21-There are two ways to wash dishes: one is to wash them to clean them, the other is to wash them to wash them.
22-The greatest learning of age lies in accepting life exactly as it comes to us.
23-The day you change, all people will change for you, and your present will change. Then you will live in a world of love.
24-Thought can organize the world so well that you are no longer able to see it.
25-It is not falling that makes you sink, is to remain there.
26-Do not talk until you can improve the silence.
27-To be awake is to accept everything, not as a law, not as a sacrifice, not an effort, but enlightenment.
28-I would like to become a teacher of truth.
29-When you get rid of your fear of failure, of your tensions to succeed, you can be yourself.
30-Any time you are with someone or thinking of someone, you must tell yourself: I am dying and this person is also dying, trying to experience the truth of the words you say. If everyone agrees to practice this, bitterness will be extinguished, harmony will arise.
31-Sinners often tell the truth. And the saints have led the people in the wrong way. Examine what is said, not what it says.
32-If you have problems, you're asleep. Life is not problematic. It is the self (the human mind) that creates the problems.
33-Most people have suffered such brainwashing that they do not even realize how unhappy they are: like the man who dreams and has no idea what he is dreaming about.
34-There is not a single moment in your life when you do not have everything you need to be happy. The reason why you are unhappy is because you do not stop thinking about what you do not have, instead of thinking rather about what you have right now.
35-You are happy here and now; But you do not know, because your false beliefs and deformed way of perceiving things have filled you with fears, worries, ties, conflicts, guilt and a series of games that you have been programming to play.
36-If you look at how you are done and how you work, you will discover that there is in your mind a program, a whole series of budgets about what the world should be like, how you should be yourself and what you want.
37-All you have to do is open your eyes and see that, in fact, you do not need that at all to what you are so attached.
38-E responsible for your anger is you, because although the other has caused the conflict, attachment and not conflict is what makes you suffer
39-The fear only removes you looking for the origin of the fear. The one who behaves well based on fear is that he has tamed it, but has not changed the origin of his problems: he is asleep.
40-When you are too far from nature, your spirit dries up and dies, because it has been violently separated from its roots.
41-The establishment of relationships is only possible between conscious people. Unconscious people can not share love.
42-You must discover what it is that you do, not because of the usefulness it reports to you, but because you want to do it.
43-The most important question in the world, the basis of all mature acts, is: Who am I? Because, without knowing you, you can not know God. Knowing yourself is fundamental.
44-The approval, the success, the praise, the valuation, are the drugs with which society has made us junkies, and not having them always, the suffering is terrible
45-To receive the revelation of the writing you have to approach it; To capture the revelation of silence, you must first achieve silence.
46. If your prayer remains too long in the head and does not pass to the heart, it will become arid and become tedious and discouraging.
47. You must learn to leave the field of thought and speech and emigrate to the domains of feelings, sensations, love, intuition.
48-There is only one need: that need is to love. When someone discovers that, it is transformed.
"The bad thing is that most people equate happiness with the object of their attachment, and do not want to know that happiness is precisely in the absence of attachments, and not be subject to the power of any person or thing.
50-All the brilliance of the sunrise seen from the mountain, and much more, is enclosed in an exercise as monotonous as it is to take into account for hours and days without end the sensations of your body.
51-Selfishness is to demand that the other do what you want. Letting everyone do what they want is love. In love there can be no demands or blackmail.
52-Only in freedom do you love yourself. When you love life, reality, with all your strength, you love people much more freely.
53-Experience reality, come to your senses. That will bring you to the now. That will bring you to the experience. It is in the now where you find God.
54-It is fear that makes us want to hold hands with happiness, and she does not let herself be caught. She is. We find this only by watching, well awake, seeing when our fears move and when our motives are real. If we cling to desires, it is a sign that there is attachment.
55-Look within yourself, understand that there is a generous kingdom of self-sufficient happiness. You had not found it before in you, because your attention was focused on the things you believe in, or your illusions about the world.
56-The fear of the future, or hope in the future, is the same, they are projections of the past. Without projection there is no future, because there is no that does not enter into reality.