He child abuse Is a frequent sociological phenomenon; A quarter of all adults report having suffered physical maltreatment as a child.
Other surprising information / data on this type of violence the OMS
- One in 5 women and 1 in 13 men report having been sexually abused in childhood.
- It is estimated that 41 000 children under the age of 15 die each year for homicide.
- Mental health, abuse can contribute to heart disease, cancer, suicide and sexually transmitted infections.
According UNICEF
- In countries like Tanzania, Kenya or Zimbabwe, 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 6 children have suffered some form of sexual abuse.
- In more developed countries such as the United States, almost 25% of teenagers and 10% of boys have suffered some kind of sexual incident, abuse, robbery or assault.
- 6 out of every 10 children in the world between the ages of 2 and 14 suffer physical abuse on a daily basis.
- Every 5 minutes a child dies because of violence.
- Currently in many countries corporal punishment is normal, as is the case in Australia, where 1 in 10 families pleads to punish their children with clubs, sticks or belts.
- In the world, the number of married minors amounts to 14 million per year, which implies that 39,000 girls are married on a daily basis.
- In Somalia, 45 per cent of minors are required to marry before the age of 18, and over 98 per cent have been subjected to genital mutilation, one of the strongest and most cruel assaults.
- The mutilation of clitoris to eliminate the sensation of pleasure is practiced in 29 countries and has already been performed to approximately 140 million girls, a figure that amounts to 2 million each year.
The best thing you can do to help prevent child violence is to inform you properly and know how to act and whom to turn to if you are aware of a case of abuse.
Read on to know the different types, causes and consequences of this type of abuse and to know what you can do about it.
What is Child Abuse?
The World Health Organization Defines child abuse as any act of abuse or neglect of which children and adolescents under the age of 18 years are objects that damages their health or development.
Abuse of minors not only refers to physical abuse or sexual abuse, but also includes neglect and Psychological abuse .
Other actions, such as commercial exploitation, neglect or emotional indifference are also considered child abuse.
According to WHO data, a quarter of adults report having suffered physical abuse in childhood, while one in five women and one in thirteen men report having been sexually abused in their childhood or adolescence.
Child abuse often occurs in the family or in the neighborhood of the minor. Parents, stepparents, close relatives, close friends or guardians are often responsible for the child's mistreatment.
In all cases, there is an asymmetry in the age between the abuser and the victim, and also abuse of power, which implies a dominant social role of the person who causes the abuse.
Types of Child Abuse
Physical maltreatment
It occurs when physical force is used to cause harm to the minor.
It includes all intentional actions that cause physical harm to the child: blows, burns, scratches, punctures, violent jolts, etc.
The beaten child
Children struck or physically abused have bruises, bruises and bruises on large areas of their body, and wounds in different stages of healing.
Frequently, they also present multiple fractures occurring in different dates, injuries to the nervous system or traumatic brain injuries that show hard and repeated physical abuse over time.
The restless infant ( Shaken baby syndrome )
Violent shocks are a form of maltreatment prevalent in very young children: most are less than nine months old.
These jerks can lead to bleeding in the brain, retina and small fractures"splintered"in the joints of the child's arms and legs, caused by rapid shaking.
Shaking can have long-term consequences, such as delayed psychomotor development, cerebral palsy, blindness, or even death.
Neglect or neglect
Neglect happens when the relative does not care for the child as appropriate. It is a lack of responsibility that leads to the omission of the basic care of the child or adolescent, whose fundamental needs are not covered.
For you to have some specific examples, there is negligence when the child is not monitored, not sent to school, given to eat as is due, is not dressed properly or is not taken to control or medical consultations, etc.
Psychological abuse
It is a set of behaviors and attitudes that prolong in the time and that cause much damage in the mental state and Self-esteem of children or adolescents .
Psychological abuse includes cries, insults, indifference, contempt, humiliation, confinement, threats or any kind of verbal hostility.
If this type of abuse happens in the first years of the child's life, it may not develop attachment and in the future that child will feel excluded from the family and social environment.
In this way, psychological abuse negatively influences their self-esteem And social skills.
Sexual abuse
Sexual abuse occurs when a child or adolescent under the age of 18 maintains sexual contact with an adult or another minor, when he or she is not prepared to do so, and when this situation occurs in a relationship of submission, abuse of power and authority over the victim.
Sexual abuse also includes sexual exploitation, rape, manipulation, requests with sexual connotations even if there is no physical contact, masturbation in the presence of a child or exposure of genital organs, among others.
In these cases, it is often the case that children are brought to the doctor's office for physical or behavioral problems which, when investigated further, are the consequences of sexual abuse.
Child Abuse Statistics
The Anar foundation , Which helps children and adolescents, has warned of a worrying increase in child maltreatment in Spain.
According to their data, 10% of the calls received by the institution are due to ill-treatment by their parents or guardians, registering a significant increase in this type of calls in recent years.
In addition to the increase, the foundation emphasizes the serious consequences that abuse has on teenagers.
Many of those who called for help said they had thought about taking their own lives to escape the situation of family violence they were living.
Self-injuries are also common. Low self-esteem And the limited ability to resolve conflicts lead to the rejection of their image, among other negative consequences.
Throughout 2013, for example, Anar had to carry out more than 17 thousand case referrals to the legal field and 445 urgent legal interventions were initiated due to the detection of situations of serious risk to the physical integrity of the minors.
Risk factor's
While child abuse can happen in any setting, you should know that there are some risk factors that increase the chances of a child or adolescent suffering abuse.
For example, children under four and adolescents are at increased risk. The same happens with children who were not wanted, who do not meet the expectations of parents, who have a physical or mental disability or who cry a lot.
Adult guardians who have difficulty in bonding with their children, who were mistreated themselves in their childhood or who have unrealistic expectations about the development of their children, are at greater risk of being abusers.
In addition, economic difficulties in the home and consumption of alcohol or Drug addiction They can also be risk factors.
Finally, in families living in situations of domestic violence, isolation in their community or lack of support from their own family to care for their children, there is also a greater risk of child abuse.
Causes of maltreatment in children
The causes of child abuse are multifactorial.
As you have read in the previous section, when adults have suffered abuse in their childhood, when there are violent situations in the home, low self-esteem, physical or psychological disorders in parents or children, substance abuse or unwanted children, There is a greater risk that minors will be mistreated.
The lack of compensatory elements to these risk factors, such as personal satisfaction, access to therapies, attachment to children, social support and good economic situation also lead to situations of greater risk.
Consequences of child abuse
Surely you already intuit: in addition to the immediate physical consequences that can cause child abuse, these situations of violence also cause emotional, behavioral and social disorders.
The importance and severity of the impact depends on:
The frequency of abuse and its intensity and its prolongation over time.
The characteristics of the child (age, temperament, susceptibility, social skills, etc.).
The presence or absence of physical violence.
The relationship that the child has with his abuser.
The support the child receives from his / her family.
Access to medical, psychological and social care.
The consequences can be:
- When maltreatment occurs in young children, under the age of three, attachment may not develop, and your social skills and self-esteem will be damaged.
In these cases, it is common to see that the child has nightmares, sleep disorders, changes in eating habits, delays in his psychomotor development or loss of sphincter control.
- Growing up, maltreated children are likely to have difficulty understanding, grading, and regulating their emotions and impulses.
They often lack positive beliefs about themselves and the world around them. In general, they have less ability to recognize or react to the discomfort of others.
They often interpret the intentions of their peers or teachers as more hostile than they really are.
This is mainly due to the continuous emotional contradictions to which they are subjected, because a person who is supposed to care for them and whom they love, actually mistreats them.
- When maltreatment occurs in older children or adolescents, they often flee the home, assault themselves, and generally have poor academic performance.
- Social isolation, juvenile delinquency, substance abuse, rejection of one's body, generalized fear, or the appearance of feelings of shame or guilt, or illness Such as depression or The dissociative disorder of identity.
- When they reach adulthood, people who were mistreated in their childhood often become the abusers of their children themselves.
- Beyond psychological disorders, research conducted in the United States has shown that physical punishment can cause changes in the brain. In this way, children who are beaten or physically abused from small to above five years of age may have a lower IQ compared to children who do not suffer from this type of violence because they have less Of gray matter in the pre-frontal area of the brain.
Prevention
In general, the prevention of child abuse, from a global point of view, is the task of governments, which must establish programs of assistance, education and support to families.
This can be achieved, for example, through the formation of support groups that inform and educate parents so that they have better skills to raise their children by adopting positive strategies.
Also through policies that help prevent unwanted pregnancies or sensitizing and training professionals who care for minors, such as teachers or pediatricians, for the early detection of such situations.
In some states, pediatricians and other health care professionals are required by law to report cases of child abuse they know or suspect.
But do not worry, even if you are not a pediatrician or social worker, you too can do things to help avoid such aberrant situations.
For example, if you have children, teach them to know your body and to differentiate normal contact with another person from impudent contact. Simply tell him that no one has to touch his genitals without him not wanting to.
In this way, you will be helping to prevent sexual abuse. Explain to your children that they should say NO when a situation or proposal does not appeal to them and that if someone wants to force them to do something unpleasant, they should immediately tell an adult they trust.
In case it was of your interest I add the protocol of action Against child abuse by the Ministry of Labor and Social Affairs .
What to do if you know a situation of child abuse
If you know of a child abuse case or suspect it, what you should do is contact a child protection service that is available in your city, county or state.
If you believe that physical abuse or neglect is putting the child's life in immediate danger, do not hesitate to call the police or emergency service.
Unfortunately, child abuse will not go away if you look the other way.
And what is worse, if it is not prevented in time, is a problem that is perpetuated. As you have probably already read above, adults who have suffered abuse in their childhood are at risk of becoming abusers or violent people.
That is why, if you know or suspect a case of child abuse, you must inform the appropriate authorities, not only to protect the child, but also to teach the family how to function properly, without violence.
And what experiences do you have with child abuse?