These Melancholic phrases Will let you better understand that feeling that for some is so unpleasant and at the same time difficult to understand.
There are usually two melancholic states; One who feels joyfully, where one remembers with joy the past, but at the same time longs for it and a negative one in which the feeling of sadness causes discomfort.
It can also be a generalized feeling that you can not find a particular cause: being melancholic because that day you are like that point.
Although I will not dwell too much on this aspect, in my opinion the difference between one and the other is in acceptance.
That is, I can remember my years at the University with melancholy and accept it. I accept that it was a good time, also with its negative aspects, that it has already happened and that life goes in stages. However, if I try to think that it is the best stage of life, that I will never have a better time, etc., negative emotions will come.
On the other hand, it is also necessary to accept that sadness is normal, in fact it is adaptive and we can not always be happy. It is normal that if you are locked in a month without leaving and without socializing, you are sad. It is normal that if you just leave a relationship are sad. It is normal that if you have lost a family member you are sad. What is not normal is if that sadness gets too long in time and causes behaviors that negatively influence ourselves and others.
You may also like These phrases to lift the spirits or You are to start the day in a positive way .
1-All changes, even the most desired, have their melancholy; Because we leave behind a part of ourselves; We must die for one life to enter into another.-Anatole France.
2-A comfortable old age is the reward for a well-spent youth. Instead of bringing us prospects of sadness and melancholy, it will bring us hope of eternal youth in a better world.-Maurice Chevalier.
3-People say that bad memories can cause a worse pain, but in fact, it is the good ones that lead you to madness.-Author unknown.
4-Melancholy is as seductive as ecstasy.-Mason Cooley.
5-Melancholy is the pleasure of being sad.-Victor Hugo.
6-If there were a hell on earth, it would be found in the heart of a melancholy man.-Robert Burton.
7-All changes are more or less stained with melancholy because what we leave behind is part of ourselves.-Amelia Barr.
8-Great men are always of an originally melancholy nature.-Aristotle.
9-People without a soul has no need for melancholy.- Vladimir Odoevsky.
10-Life is like a rainbow. You need both the sun and the rain so that their colors appear.-Unknown author.
11-I can hardly conceive of a kind of beauty in which there is no melancholy.-Charles Baudelaire.
12-Sadness and melancholy I do not want them in my house.-Santa Teresa De Jesús.
13-What some people interpret as melancholy, is actually serenity.-David Guterson.
14-The melancholy is the sadness that has been taken from the light.-Italo Calvino.
15-First, the company of fools can make us smile, but in the end we always feel melancholy.- Oliver Goldsmith.
16-Melancholy and sadness are the beginning of doubt. Doubt is the beginning of despair. Despair is the beginning of different degrees of malice.-Comte de Lautreamont.
17-It is a melancholy truth that even great men have their poor relations.-Charles Dickens.
18-If I were immersed in a constant melancholy, I would not be who I am.-Elie Wiesel.
19-When you feel overwhelmed by melancholy, it is best to go out and do something nice for someone.-Keble.
20-Melancholy should be diverted by all means except drink.-Samuel Johnson.
21-There is no such thing as happiness, only minor nuances of melancholy.-Robert Burton.
22-Ask yourself if you are happy and you will cease to be.-John Stuart Mill.
23-Nothing but a losing battle may be half melancholy than a battle won.-Arthur Wellesley.
24-Do not make best friends with a melancholy soul. They always carry a heavy load and you must carry half. -Francis Fenelon.
25-I believe that every human being has a certain level of melancholy in life and in general.-Sandra Bullock.
26-There is no melancholy without memory or memory without melancholy.-Will Rogers.
27-There is a melancholy born of greatness.-Nicolas Chamfort.
"You have no harmony when everybody sings the same note."Doug Floyd.
29-The melancholy has the face of God when he looks at us.-Pisabarro.
30-Only after one has experienced the ups and downs, obligations and commitments to live with a partner, can you truly know the pleasure of living alone.-Alexis Padfield.
31-Melancholy is a sadness, a desire without any pain, similar to sadness as the haze resembles rain.-Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.
32-The loneliest place on earth? Living with a man you no longer love.-Sally Brampton.
33-If you do not use your smile you're like a man with a million dollars in the bank and can not spend them.-Les Giblin.
34. Laughter is the closest thing to the grace of God.-Karl Barth.
35-Melancholy is part of life and one of its most enriching experiences; Accept it, reflect on it, enjoy it and feel it because not every day you will have them.-Author unknown.
36-If you want to stop feeling melancholy, get up from the sofa, go out into the street and start to see all the nice things that life offers you.-Author unknown.
37-If you think that you will always do well, you live in another world or you lack experience. Accept the sorrows of life as much as the joys. Both are part of it and, if you are human, you will have it from your birth until your death.-Author unknown.
38-Melancholy should not cry, you should smile, because if you feel it is that you are having experiences that make you feel, and feel is to live.-Author unknown.
39-Use your low moods for your good. Reflect on what makes you feel that way. If it hurts you, avoid it in the future. If it is for another reason, you have the option to turn it into a positive experience.-Unknown author.
40-A melancholy day can mark the rest of your life, for good, if you take it well.
41-Melancholy is not sadness, but remember happy days.