100 Own Love Phrases

In this article I leave you 100 Phrases of self-love Of authors such as Buddha, Charlie Chaplin, Mae Brown, Jung or Seneca.

To love oneself is a very serious thing. In fact, many experts in psychology, sociology and life coaches say that self-love is the basis on which self-esteem is raised and is the emotion that allows us to grow to our fullest potential.

Before going into detail about this concept, we leave these 100 phrases, also in the hope that they serve as motivation for those who still do not treat with love.

1. You, as much as any other being in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. Buddha, Indian sage.
2. The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself, completely. C.G. Jung, a Swiss psychiatrist.
3. Until you value yourself, you will not value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it. M. Scott Peck, American psychiatrist.
4. Celebrate who you are in the depths of your heart. Love yourself and the world will love you. Amy Leigh Mercree, American author.
   
5. As I began to love myself, I stopped craving a different life, and I could see that everything around me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it"maturity". Charlie Chaplin, American actor, director and author.
6. If you are not happy with your appearance, you have to ask yourself how much self-love you have. Tyrese Gibson, American author and singer.
7. Dare to love yourself as if you were a rainbow with gold at both ends. Aberjhani, American writer, poet and columnist.
8. He fell in love with himself at first sight, and it is a passion to which he has always remained faithful. Love seems so often unrequited. Anthony Powell, English novelist.
9. I'm a recovering narcissist. I thought narcissism was about self-love, until someone told me it was the other side of the same coin. In fact, it is sadder than self-love; It is unrequited self-love. Emily Levine, American writer and speaker.
10. Often, romantic relationships fail because we are trying to get someone to fall in love with that"I"we have never discovered. Shannon L. Alder, American author.
    
11. I am in love with the art of knowing myself. Minaa B., American psychotherapist.
12. All love begins with inner love. Vironika Tugaleva, Ukrainian author.
13. Self-love is a big part of golf. Lewis Black, comedian and American actor.
14. How would it change your life if you stop allowing others to poison your day with your words or thoughts? Let today be the day... Stay steadfast in the truth of your beauty and travel through your day, without attachment to the validation of others. Steve Maraboli, American author and speaker.
15. The object of self-love is expressed in the same term (own); And all the appetites of the senses, and every particular affection of the heart, are equally included or excluded, since the objects of all of them are just the same or a little more. Joseph Butler, English philosopher and theologian.
16. You are your own guru. You are your own soul mate. You are powerful. Take the reins and drive your car into the house of self-love. Amy Leigh Mercree, American author.
17. When I began to love myself, I found that the anguish and emotional suffering were only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is"authenticity". Charlie Chaplin, American actor, director and author.
18. If we did not love ourselves at all, we could never love anything. So self-love is the basis of all love. Thomas Traherne, English poet.
19. Life is too short to waste any amount of time in wondering what other people think of you. First, if they had better things to do in their lives, they would not have the time to sit and talk about you. What is important to me is not the opinion of others about me, but my opinion about myself. C. JoyBell C., American writer.
20. Releasing your own self-criticism is also releasing others from it. Loving yourself is an act of love for the world. Vironika Tugaleva, Ukrainian author.
21. Make a promise to yourself right now: declare that you are worthy of your time and energy. Deborah Day, Canadian director and writer.
22. I think the award of conformity is that everyone loves you except yourself Mae Brown, American writer.
23. Self-love has very little to do with how you feel about your appearance. It is about accepting everything from yourself. Tyra Banks, American supermodel.
24. Self-love, of course, always remains positive and active in our nature. Gordon W. Allport, American psychologist.
25. As I began to love myself, I understood how much I can offend someone if I try to force them into my desires, even though I know it is not the right time or that person is not ready for it, even if that person is myself. Today, I call it"respect." Charlie Chaplin, American actor, director and author.
26. If you have the capacity to love, love yourself first. Charles Bukowski, American writer and poet.
27. Attend to yourself the same way you attend your flowers. Be kind, careful, remain vibrant and flourish without shame. Minaa B., American psychotherapist.
28. Self-love is the instrument of our preservation; Resembles the provision for the perpetuity of humanity: it is necessary, it is dear to us, it gives us pleasure, and we must hide it. Voltaire, writer, historian, philosopher and French lawyer.
29. Jealousy has more of love than love. Francois de La Rochefoucauld, French writer, aristocrat and military.
30. The private interest of the individual would not be provided enough, only by a reasonable and cold self-love; Therefore, appetites and passions are placed inside as a security guard, without which they would not have proper care. Joseph Butler, English philosopher and theologian.
31. Love yourself and be content with the incredible life you create. Amy Leigh Mercree, American author.
32. There is no limit or barrier in the heart of a person who loves himself and others. Shannon L. Alder, American author.
33. I think the most important thing in life is self-love, because if you do not feel self-respect and respect for everything about your own body, your own soul, your own capsule, then how can you have an authentic relationship with someone plus? Shailene Woodley, American actress.
34. Self-love is the source of all loves. Pierre Corneille, French playwright.
35. People should agree to be single, because those are the times when you can really focus on yourself, and know who you are. So when you start a relationship, you go stronger and have a little more self-awareness, self-esteem, and other necessary ingredients for a healthy relationship. Lauren London, American actress.
36. Delusions of self-love can not be prevented, but intellectual misconceptions as the means to success can be corrected. George Henry Lewes, philosopher and critic of English literature.
37. A circle of endless softness is how we should aspire to feel within ourselves. Gentle, gentle, with acceptance, without edges, only with love in all parts of our being. Amy Leigh Mercree, American author.
38. It is a great deception in those whose knowledge has been obscured by self-love, to think that there is some obedience on the subject of trying to drag the superior to what they want. San Ignacio de Loyola, Spanish religious and military.
39. Self-love is not the process of ignoring your faults. Self-love is to expand your awareness to include your weaknesses and your strengths. Vironika Tugaleva, Ukrainian author.
40. Our first and last love is self-love. Christian Nestell, American writer.
41. The pride of a man is confused with dignity; In a woman, with self-love. Jose Bergamin, Spanish writer.
42. Self-love always goes mad, like a snake, that bites everything that stumbles or perches above it. Lord Byron, sixth baron of Byron and English poet.
43. We often assume that we suffer from ingratitude, while in reality we suffer from self-love. Walter Savage Landor, English poet and writer.
44. As I began to love myself, I realized that under any circumstances I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the right time. So he could rest easy. Today, I call it"SELF-CONFIDENCE". Charlie Chaplin, American actor, director and author.
45. After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If you have love of yourself and for others, you will not need it. Shannon L. Alder, American author.
46. The principle we call self-love never seeks anything external for the well-being of itself, but only as a means to happiness or good: particular affections rest in external things. Joseph Butler, English philosopher and theologian.
47. Beauty, through fashion, has to do with self-confidence, with flattering silhouettes, with patterns, with the appropriate fit for the body type, and with abundant self-love. Mary Lambert, American singer-songwriter.
48. The most powerful relationship you will ever have is your relationship with yourself. Steve Maraboli, American author and speaker.
49. Taking self-love as a part of human nature, and the various particular principles as the other part, are themselves, their objects and ends, fixed and shown. Joseph Butler, English philosopher and theologian.
50. As I began to love myself, I allowed myself to steal my own time, and stopped designing great projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, the things I like to do that make my heart happy, and I do it my way and at my own pace. Today I call it"simplicity." Charlie Chaplin, American actor, director and author.
51. Your self-esteem, healthy, is sexy. Amy Leigh Mercree, American author.
52. It's all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciates you, instead of looking for love outside, to make up for a deficit of self-love. Eartha Kitt, actress and American jazz singer.
53. It is not love that should be considered as blind, but self-love. Voltaire, writer, historian, philosopher and French lawyer.
54. When I began to love myself, I freed myself from all that was not good for my health: food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude"a healthy selfishness". Today, I know it's"self love". Charlie Chaplin, American actor, director and author.
55. A person learns to love himself through the simple acts of loving and being loved by another person. Haruki Murakami, Japanese writer and translator.
56. For me, self-esteem is not self-love. It is self-recognition, as the recognition and acceptance of who you are. Amity Gaige, American novelist.
57. All of us would have liked to have a perfect childhood, with a mother and father who would model attitudes, ideals and teach us to internalize the principles of self-love. For many of us, however, it was not so. Marianne Williamson, American author.
58. When you stop living your life based on what others think of you, start your real life. In that moment, you finally see open the door of acceptance of yourself. Shannon L. Alder, American author.
59. When I began to love myself, I refused to continue living in the past and worrying about the future. Now, I only live in the moment, in which everything is happening. Today I live every day, day by day, and I call it"fulfillment." Charlie Chaplin, American actor, director and author.
60. I am powerful in my love for myself. The truth of my being is I love myself as I am. I honor my empowered heart. Amy Leigh Mercree, American author.
61. Happiness does not consist of self-love. Joseph Butler, English philosopher and theologian.
62. In your life it is important that you know how spectacular you are. Steve Maraboli, American author and speaker.
63. Before labeling yourself and before deciding that there is something hopelessly wrong with your thoughts and emotions, ask yourself,"Do I have a worried best friend, who gives me unconditional love, in myself?"If the answer is"No" Then you will not find the solution to your suffering until you solve this serious and potentially deadly absence of self-pity. Self-love is not a mint candy. Self-respect matters. Self-love saves lives. Vironika Tugaleva, Ukrainian author.
64. A moderate dose of self-love is wholly healthy. Who would want to live in a world where everyone hates themselves? But taken too far, it becomes poisonous. Geoff Mulgan, Chief Executive Officer of NESTA (National Endowment for Science and Technology), London.
65. There is a pride, a self-love, in human minds that seldom stays so low as to make men and women more humble, believe that they should be. Samuel Richardson, English writer.
66. A well-ordered self-love is just and natural. Thomas Aquinas, Italian theologian and philosopher.
67. Our self-love draws a thick veil between us and our defects. Philip Dormer Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield, British statesman and man of letters.
68. Consult with your friend about all things, especially in regards to yourself. Your advice can then be useful when your self-esteem may affect your judgment. Lucius Annaeus Seneca (Seneca the Younger), philosopher, orator and Roman politician.
69. If we give our children self-love, they will be able to cope with what life puts in front of them. Gloria Jean Watkins (Bell Hooks), American feminist writer and activist.
70. Well, I think everyone struggles with self-love. Philip Seymour Hoffman, American actor.
71. Love of neighbor, then, has the same relation and is no more distant from self-love, than hatred toward our neighbor, or that love or hatred for anything else. Joseph Butler, English philosopher and theologian.
72. We can not be so desperate for love as we forget where we always find it; in. Alexandra Elle, American author.
73. The way you think about yourself determines your reality. You are not being hurt by what others think of you. Many of those people are a reflection of how you think about yourself. Shannon L. Alder, American author.
74. When I started to love myself, I realized that my mind can upset me and can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valued ally. Today I invite you in this respect:"wisdom of the heart". Charlie Chaplin, American actor, director and author.
75. Many times we choose a friend as we choose a lover. By no particular excellence in themselves, but by some circumstance which favors our self-love. William Hazlitt, English writer.
76. Self-love and self-hatred focus equally on the individual. Mason Cooley, American aphorist.
77. Makeup is no different than clothing and accessories. It is an ornament for your face. And it also gives you creative freedom. You get to have that moment in front of the mirror every morning and you give love. You are making yourself even more beautiful, which is essentially, self-love. Michelle Phan, youtuber, specializing in makeup tutorials.
78. Things calmly. Nobody is perfect. Accept your humanity gently. Deborah Day, Canadian director and writer.
79. The legislator must be gentle, indulgent and humane. The legislator must be an expert architect who raises the creation on the basis of self-esteem, and the interest of all must be the product of the interests of each one. Cesare Beccaria, literary, philosopher, jurist and Italian economist.
80. Document the moments in which you feel more in love with yourself, what you wear, what is close, what you are doing. Recreate and repeat. Warsan Shire, English writer and poet.
81. A consequence of feminine self-love is that women grow convinced of their social value. His love for his body will be unconditional, and that is the basis of female identification. If a woman loves her own body, she does not hold a grudge against what other women do with theirs; If she loves the feminine, she is a champion about her rights. Naomi Wolf, American political writer and consultant.
82. Did your mother ever tell you,"If you can not say something nice, do not say anything" She was right. And that also applies when you talk to yourself, even inside your head. Victoria Moran, American writer.
83. So the relationship of self to others is to discover in a complete way that loving yourself is impossible without loving what is defined as anything other than you. Alan W. Watts, English philosopher.
84. Now I see how to own our stories and love ourselves through that process, it is the bravest thing we will ever do. Brené Brown, American author.
85. Self-love is the elixir of an immortal heart. Amy Leigh Mercree, American author.
86. Do you love yourself enough to BE what you love enough to LOVE? Steve Maraboli, American author and speaker.
87. If you do not respect your own desires, no one else will. You are simply going to attract people who disrespect them as much as you do yourself. Vironika Tugaleva, Ukrainian author.
88. When we fulfill our role, which is to truly love ourselves and share love with others, then true happiness is set. Gabrielle Bernstein, American Life and Business Advisor.
89. I have known the love of friends, the love of parents, romantic love, family love and unrequited love in my life time, but the only love that made the difference was self-love. It is not necessary for the world or anyone to confirm that you are important. You simply are. When you finally believe that truth and live it, then you can do incredible things with your life! Shannon L. Alder, American author.
90. Do something every day that is loving to your body and gives you the opportunity to enjoy the sensations of your body. Golda Poretsky, American writer and motivator.
91. When you are really impressive, gorgeous and beautiful, you will not have to show it to anyone visually. Alexandra Elle, American author.
92. When I began to love myself, I stopped trying to always be right, and since then I have been mistaken less often. Today I discovered that this is"modesty". Charlie Chaplin, American actor, director and author.
93. She was perhaps too young to realize that what she supposed was his love for him was in reality a tentative, self-acceptance. Arundhati Roy, Indian writer and activist.
94. Not only self-love and love for others go hand in hand, but ultimately they are indistinguishable. M. Scott Peck, American psychiatrist.
95. Loving oneself is the most primary of all survival mechanisms. Karen Hackel, South African psychologist and sociologist.
96. If you do not love yourself, you will not be happy with yourself. If you can not love yourself, you can not love anyone else. You can not give a love that you do not have. You can not make anyone love you, without loving yourself first. Kemi Sogunle, American writer and coach.
97. True love begins when you accept yourself in your totality. Then, and only then, can you love another person completely. Amy Leigh Mercree, American author.
98. Love your neighbor, yes. But love yourself first. Solange Nicole, American poet.
99. Accept your rarity. Some will worship you. Others will not. But who cares? Worry about loving yourself, not loving the idea that other people love you. Karen Salmansohn, American columnist and writer.
100. When you love yourself, you make better decisions. Minaa B., American psychotherapist.

According to what has been said, self-love constitutes the fundamental basis on which we build our personality, our way of seeing the world and, obviously, the way the world sees us. If we love each other, we respect each other, we value our individuality, and for that we exploit and give our best. Likewise, we are loved, respected, valued as individuals and we receive the best of everything around us.

Without self-love, love for one's neighbor (call friend, family, couple) is impossible, for in order to give love, it is first necessary to feel it in such a way that it overflows, that it does not fit inside our bodies. If this is not so, it is most likely that we are giving something that resembles it, but that it brings with it the hope of receiving from that other person, that which we are not able to generate by ourselves.

It is self-love that allows us to stand firm during our most difficult times, just when we think that no one believes in our ideas and projects, when we believe that we have lost the battle and we are about to give reason to the circumstances. At that moment, self-love comes to rescue us and remind us of the wonder we are, inviting us to try it once more.

Feeling it is living with awareness and fullness; Is to take responsibility for our decisions; Is to tell the world what we are worth; Is to love the most valuable thing we have... ourselves. In conclusion: self-love is as necessary and basic as breathing and therefore not negotiable.